In society, alpha males are the leaders; people look up to them. The alpha male is confident, socially powerful, outgoing, fun, a leader, secure in himself, has high self-esteem, and is a guy who has his shit together. He’s able to joke around with women and be playful.
When a woman says something sarcastic, the beta male gets offended, while the alpha male laughs about it because he knows girls are like his silly little sisters. And when a woman later regrets her sarcasm, and learns it was really no big deal to the alpha male, she gives him big points for that.
Many social interactions that we engage in have sub-currents of dominance and submission. Studies of social situations have shown that dominant people will mark their territory in various nonverbal ways, such as taking up space with their bodies, using a louder voice, controlling conversations, and giving strong eye contact.
People around the alpha male tend to get sucked into his reality because he’s interesting and makes them feel comfortable.
The alpha male doesn’t feel possessive or jealous over woman because he isn’t needy. He also doesn’t smother women by putting them up on a pedestal. Because of this, he knows that any woman would be lucky to have him, so if any one particular woman doesn’t go for him, then that’s her loss, not his.
In contrast, the beta male is nervous, has low social status, is typically a follower rather than a leader, usually feels secretly resentful of successful guys, has low self-esteem, and is clingy and desperate with women.
True confession: I used to be beta. I was depressed and resentful. I wanted a girlfriend because I thought having one would make my life worth living. Once I got a girl and I thought, my life would become wonderful. It wasn’t until later that I learned that I had this exactly backwards.
It wasn’t until I developed myself from within and had a life worth living that I starting attracting the awesome girlfriends who I’ve had over the years and the wonderful woman who I’m currently in a relationship with.
A personal note to those of you who might be thinking: “Yeah, sounds great, but I am who I am and that ain’t changing.” Bullshit. Change is in your mind. As you imagine, so you shall be. Ninety percent of being successful is believing you can be successful. We’re talking mental image here, which is a technique that almost all top athlete use. They visualize themselves being successful long before they step out on the field.
My Friend,
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Thank you, and good luck!
To your success with women,
Jimmy Jackson (JJ)
